
Tongue grooming the other
CompositeRelaxed
Allogrooming
Social bonding, trust, family confirmation
Tension
Relaxed
Interpretation
AOne cat grooms another — especially the head, behind the ears, and neck, areas hard to reach alone. llogrooming is a vital ritual for building and reinforcing social bonds. Cats only groom “their own.” The recipient typically enjoys it with half-closed eyes. Sometimes cats lick human hands or hair, treating you as family. But note: if grooming suddenly becomes intense or turns into biting, it's “overgrooming” — possibly a stress or dominance signal.
How to respond
If you're the recipient, quietly accept it; if two cats are grooming each other, let them enjoy the intimacy.
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